Tough night

I'm not sure where things went wrong yesterday, but WHOA was it out of control!  How do we go from things being pretty good to full force screaming, hitting, and spitting?!?  I don't know what I'm doing wrong.  I find it hard to believe that it's all from being tired, but maybe.  It all started with some rain and Jacob not wanting to come in, followed by a COMPLETELY SOAKED BATHROOM (I had to wrestle him into the tub!), and screams that I'm sure the neighbors could hear (not from my mouth!).  Ugh.  What a night.  On to a better day today, I hope!